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Ten Promises by Mary Jane Popp

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What makes for a solid marriage or relationship? Could it be making promises and actually keeping them? That?s the key says Charles Baird in his book ?Ten Promises? Every Man Should Make and Keep. It?s how to create the ideal relationship.

Sounds simple, but it takes real commitment because, according to Charles, when you break a promise, you not only?destroy a part of your relationship, you destroy a part of the goodness that lives inside of you and part of the man you should be.

Baird added in my conversation with him on POPPOFF, that the following promises must be indelibly burned into any covenant you share with your wife. So here is how it goes. I promise?

I will place no one before you. You make a commitment to place your wife and family before all other wants and desires. You promise to work at your relationship, communicate with each other, and sacrifice when necessary for the sake of your marriage.
I will not make you an active widow.This is a promise not to let any activity diminish the quality of your relationship. You will not let sports, friends, games, drinking or any other functiondamage your marriage.
I will not abuse you. You will make a vow to limit your marital disagreements to civil discourse. You will learn ways of setting into motion a disagreement protocol to limit the damage caused by nuclear warfare.
I will remember special days. You pledge never to forget her special days: birthdays, anniversaries, holidays or any other day special to her. This promise is one of the most important because it gives your wife something special to look forward to when life becomes a little harsh and perhaps a little unbearable.
I will honor you. This means in all aspects of your life. Respect is a large part of honor. When you disrespect your wife and family, you are acting dishonorably.
I will not steal your joy. You vow to always be concerned for your wife?s wellbeing. You vow to make every effort to understand her emotional needs and concerns.
I will not commit adultery. You will learn the destructiveness of adultery. This nemesis has destroyed more relationships than any other marital adversary. It is the most difficult to fight and the most difficult from which to recover.
I will not be selfish. You will discover the destructiveness of selfishness in any respect. Selfishness with possessions, money, time work, home or life can be destructive to your marriage.
I will not belittle you. We stress the importance of family gatherings, how important they are and how important respect for your wife is during these gatherings. If your family has little or no respect for your wife, your marriage is in forsome stormy weather, especially, if her in-laws are a big part of your life.
I will make every day a honeymoon. Is this possible? Yes, it is. The challenge here is to keep the same or even greater level of intimacy after years of marriage that you enjoyed during the first year. A great deal is mental gymnastics. If you tell yourself you are happy in your relationship, if you tell yourself your wife is beautiful and desirable, you will be better equipped to make this vow a reality.You will be creating positive thoughts relative to your marriage.However, if you convince yourself your wife is less than desirable or that she does not possess the qualities you find necessary in a wife, you will find only discontent, dissatisfaction and destruction.

We are all looking for happiness. Once you realize you and your wife share mutual goals, the path to joy and passion should be but a step away. Take the step. It?s all in ?Ten Promises? and all up to you.